The Waterbury Times|Published Mar 24, 2026
Waterbury, CT – West Hartford resident John Scully knows firsthand the heartbreak—and hope—of loving someone living with dementia.
For the final eight years of his mother’s life, Scully’s mother was nonverbal. During her 13 years in a nursing home, he struggled to find meaningful ways to connect with her and other residents—until he discovered approaches that changed everything.
Now, Scully shares those lessons in his book, Visited Mom Today: Conversations Through the Lens of Alzheimer’s and Dementia (Green Heart Living Press, 2024), offering families practical tools and a renewed perspective on connection—even in the face of memory loss.
Event Details
On Tuesday, March 31 at 5 PM, Scully will speak at The Village at East Farms, an assisted living and Mind & Memory Care community in Waterbury. During the program, he will provide inspiration, practical communication strategies, encouragement, and moments of humor for families navigating dementia.
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More than 200,000 people in Connecticut are impacted by dementia, whether living with the disease themselves or caring for someone who is. Scully’s message emphasizes stepping into the world of a loved one with memory impairment rather than trying to pull them back into ours.
About Dementia and Alzheimer’s
- Dementia is a general term for memory loss and cognitive decline that interferes with daily life.
- Alzheimer’s disease is the most common form of dementia, affecting memory, thinking, and behavior.
- Over 200,000 people in Connecticut are impacted by dementia, either living with it or caring for someone who is.
- Early recognition and understanding of symptoms can help families communicate and connect more effectively.
- Programs like John Scully’s talk provide practical strategies for improving quality of life and meaningful interactions.
About The Village at East Farms
The Village at East Farms is a U.S. News 2025 Best Assisted Living community, providing personalized Mind & Memory Care for more than 21 years. The community features a dedicated, secure building with thoughtfully designed neighborhoods that promote independence, comfort, and connection.
Newly renovated last year, The Village is supported by long-tenured associates available 24/7 and specially trained in memory loss, communication, and empathy. Amenities include spacious living areas, a country kitchen, recreation rooms, and a secure outdoor courtyard that encourage engagement and a sense of home.
RSVP or Learn More: Contact Randi Bellemare at 203.757.7660 or email rbellemare@benchmarkquality.com.
About Benchmark Senior Living
Benchmark Senior Living is New England’s largest senior living provider, operating 70 communities with over 7,200 associates dedicated to compassionate care. Founded over 29 years ago by Tom Grape, the company’s mission is “Transforming Lives Through Human Connection.” Benchmark has received over 300 awards for care and workplace excellence, including 67 U.S. News Best of Senior Living awards in 2025.
For more information, visit BenchmarkSeniorLiving.com.
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